If Costa Rica had a national reflex, it wouldn’t be flinching from a football—it would be smiling at a stranger and saying “buenas.” Whether you’re stepping into a pulpería, passing a neighbour on a gravel road, or waving from a bus seat, the simple act of greeting in Costa Rica isn’t just a social nicety—it’s a gentle, daily ceremony of human connection. And once you catch the habit? It travels with you.
Why do Costa Ricans greet so often?
A warm greeting is seen as a sign of respect, friendliness, and shared humanity.
In Costa Rica, failing to greet someone can feel a bit like ignoring a handshake or walking into a room without saying “hello.” Greetings—especially a cheery “buenas”—help set the tone for a positive interaction. It’s not just politeness. It’s the cultural glue.
- “Buenas” for all occasions
Short for buenos días, buenas tardes, or buenas noches, this all-purpose word is used from sunrise to moonrise—and no one will fault you for picking the wrong time of day. - The smile isn’t optional
A smile often comes before the words. It signals openness, friendliness, and, frankly, that you’re not in a rush to be miserable. - Eye contact seals the deal
Looking someone in the eyes while greeting them is a soft yet powerful way of saying, “I see you, and I acknowledge you.”
Where do greetings show up in daily life?
Greetings are everywhere—in shops, buses, queues, and even forest trails.
You’ll quickly notice that locals greet everyone. It doesn’t matter if you’re buying fruit or just crossing paths on a hike. Costa Ricans will often smile and say something—usually “buenas” or “adiós” even when arriving. It’s not awkward. It’s normal.
- On the bus
It’s common to step onto a public bus and say “buenas” to everyone already sitting. You might get a chorus of quiet replies or just a few nods—but the ritual is real. - In small shops
Walking into a tienda without greeting the vendor? Cultural blasphemy. Expect warm exchanges, often with a “¿todo bien?” and maybe a friendly joke. - On the street
Passing someone, even a stranger, merits at least a nod and a soft “buenas.” It’s not about starting a chat—it’s about acknowledging they exist.
What happens when you bring the habit home?
It surprises people—and it can brighten someone’s day.
Expats and travellers often report an odd culture shock when they return home. They instinctively smile and say “hello” to people on the street… only to be met with suspicion or awkward glances. But don’t let that stop you.
- Unexpected smiles
Your new habit might throw off a few fast-paced city walkers—but others may crack a smile back. It’s a ripple effect. - Better small talk
Greeting someone—even briefly—makes you more approachable. Whether in a lift, queue, or café, it opens doors to conversations. - Mindful interactions
Saying “hello” or “how are you?” with intention (instead of mumbling it like a voicemail) leads to warmer human moments—even if fleeting.
How does this affect community life?
It builds stronger, kinder neighbourhoods—even in places with high fences.
When everyone acknowledges each other, communities feel safer and more united. It’s not just about feeling friendly—it’s about fostering social trust. From village markets to urban bus stops, greeting each other regularly means fewer barriers between people.
- Trust grows when people feel seen
Recognising someone daily builds familiarity and reduces tension. - Elders especially appreciate the gesture
Greeting older locals is a mark of respect. It’s a way of honouring their presence in public life. - Children learn it young
Tico children often greet adults with a kiss on the cheek or a handshake—manners matter early on.
FAQ
What does “buenas” mean exactly?
It’s a shortened, friendly version of a time-of-day greeting—used widely and casually in Costa Rica.
Do I need to greet everyone I pass?
It’s polite, but you won’t be banished if you forget. Still, try it. It’s rewarding.
Why do some people say “adiós” when they arrive?
In rural Costa Rica, “adiós” can mean hello or goodbye. It’s just a greeting. Context matters more than logic.
Is this just for small towns or everywhere?
Everywhere. From tiny pueblos to San José buses, greetings are part of the social fabric.
What if I don’t speak Spanish well?
No worries. A smile and a warm “buenas” transcends fluency.
